A Date With Destiny

The Wealth of Hard Work: A Birthday Blessing from Proverbs 10:4

“A lazy person will end up poor.
    But a hard worker will become rich.”

(Proverbs 10:4)

You are a good worker and find great satisfaction in productivity. The riches you gain from your work are far more valuable than mere money.

Your work experience has taught you discipline, patience, and problem-solving techniques which are useful in every area of your life.

Your work ethic is exceptional. From this birthday verse, you can be assured that wealth is promised, both in monetary gain and personal growth. These will carry you through life with a sense of security and confidence. 

You possess a treasure trove of knowledge that comes from hard work. Not only does it enhance your performance, but it also makes you an expert in your field. 

The wealth of work is not always reflected in paychecks or bank balances, but God has a way of multiplying whatever you have in order to make good on His promise.


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The Joy of Music: Finding God’s Presence in Sacred Spaces

Two trumpet players perform before a joyful congregation in a cathedral.

“When both trumpets are blown, the people should gather before you at the entrance to the Meeting Tent.” (Numbers 10:3)


Your appreciation for sacred spaces comes from a deeply spiritual center within you. Knowing there is supernatural power released when people gather to praise God, you are grateful for gathering places where people understand the power of music in worship.

You know that musical instruments produce an emotional response which opens the mind to a spiritual dimension. You enjoy dedicating your time and musical talents to God’s work. You are committed to sharing the joy of music wherever you go and whatever you do. You appreciate musical expression as a universal language, understood by all.


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Tell of His Miracles: Living Your Exodus 10:2 Birthday Verse

I also did this so you could tell your children and grandchildren. Tell them about the miracles I did. Then all of you will know that I am the Lord. (Exodus 10:2)

You are a gifted speaker when you feel passionate about the topic you are presenting. Your sense of gratitude for the things God has done for you is revealed in the joyful way you talk about Him.

You love to get together with friends and family who share this enthusiasm about the work of God in their own lives as well.

You love to share stories of His miracles and mercy. You openly tell of the times that Jesus has showered you with grace and mercy during times of great difficulty.

You also enjoy hearing others talk about what God is doing in their lives. You adore being surrounded by people who openly express the hope they found when they met Jesus.

Having conversations about the healing and deliverance Jesus brought into your life is one of your favorite pastimes.

Like the children of Israel in the Exodus story, you too are called to tell about your own times of seeing the power of God at work. As you tell about the miracles you’ve experienced yourself and witnessed for others, you are energized with renewed passion. You understand that as you expound upon topics such as healing, deliverance, and mercy, your words deliver hope and joy to those who are listening.

Gathering with family and friends to celebrate the wonderful changes Jesus has made in your life is one of your most enjoyable pastimes. You give all credit to God, who called you out of darkness and into His wonderful light.  

No  wonder this is your birthday verse!


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Redefining Perfection: Growing Into Your Full Potential


A tiny green tomato on the vine is a perfect tomato, although it does not have the color, flavor, or texture of a fully ripened tomato. The tiny green fruit is perfect, but it is not yet useful for its intended purpose. If it remains on the vine, the perfect green tomato will grow into its full potential. And throughout each stage of its growth, it will continue to be perfect.

Thus, we conclude that perfection is about potential. Perfection has little to do with current behavior or ability, but a lot to do with our mindset. Perfection is a state of being which maintains continuous momentum toward progress.


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Jesus’ Call to Perfection: Rethinking What ‘Perfect’ Really Means

If Jesus calls us to be perfect, but we say, “Oh no. I’m not perfect. Let’s be realistic, I will never be perfect,” then we are dismissing His invitation to venture into a new mindset and a leveled-up form of existence.

Before we can take that leap of faith though, we need to address this issue of perfection and what it really means. Can we trust God to bring us to a point of perfection? Can we believe that Jesus wasn’t just using performance hyperbole when He said we could be perfect like the Father?


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Declaring Christ’s Finished Work: Living Philippians 1:6 Today

“Being confident of this very thing, that he, who hath begun a good work in you, will perfect it unto the day of Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 1:6)


It feels awkward to say we are perfect. We aren’t quite sure how to align the character qualities of honesty and humility with such a bold statement. It seems like a brag and a lie.

But, if we remove the dimension of time, we can most assuredly say that somewhere in time, it has happened. Therefore, we step outside of time and claim it now. We call out what God has promised and continue declaring it until the truth becomes our reality.  


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Learning to Live with Imperfection While Longing for More


We are perfectionistic by nature and refuse to give ourselves permission to fail. Therefore, we say, “I’m not perfect,” to soften the impact when crashing into our own imperfections.

We also use the phrase, “I’m not perfect,” to preface a judgmental statement like, “I know I’m not perfect, but I would never do what he did.”

We long for perfection. This is a normal desire, since we believe that it will be our reality someday. But what do we do in the time between now and then?

How can we be perfect in such an imperfect world?


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Have We Been Delusional in Our Spiritual Journey?

We still find it difficult to be joyful in these quiet times of testing. We prefer excitement and enthusiasm. It is easy to stay faithful when we are bombarded with supernatural events and scriptures that jump off the pages. It is natural to stay connected to God’s plan and purpose when we see growth and progress at every turn. It is effortless to love God’s presence when we feel the warmth of His love envelop us like a hug from heaven.

The testing times are not so easy to enjoy. We doubt ourselves. We doubt God. We doubt our progress. We doubt our faith. We wonder if our faith is just a delusion and the changes we experienced were not real at all. We flail around in an emotional free fall and without the support of our spiritual siblings, our minds may wander into a dark place.

When caught up in a moment of testing, we must resist letting our feelings and circumstances serve as a litmus test for our faith. It is not healthy, nor is it accurate.


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Finding God in Silence: Embracing Spiritual Tests

Weary adventurer slumped at tavern table holding an empty tankard

Previously, these difficult times had been dark and made us doubt our relationship with God. We were frustrated to find Him so distant when we needed Him the most.

However, when we begin to view these events as a process which increases our patience and equips us for the next level, we start to see their value. We no longer need to feel frustrated when God goes silent. A good teacher is always silent during a test.

Thanks to the book of James (and our brother by the same name who shared this passage with us), we are learning to identify our spiritually ‘blah’ times as simple tests. These tests are challenging and exhausting, but they mark the completion of one level which advances us to the next.

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Signs Our Faith is Being Tested

What is the Testing of Our Faith?

  • When our feelings betray us and tell us we don’t love God like we should.
  • When our behavior slips into an old pattern and makes us believe we have not changed.
  • When the excitement and enthusiasm we once had for God seems dull and muted.
  • When we just don’t care about trying so hard, because it’s too much work.